Christians are "others-centered" or more importantly "God-centered."
Pay now or pay later but we all pay! I would rather pay now with hard work and preparation then pay later with suffering the bad consequences of my poor choices.
The question is who will drive our theology. Will it be God and His Word or will it be the Margaret Sangers of the world?
My choice is clear and without question: God and His Word!!!
Don't be foolish and think we should ever demand "justice."
Think through what you allow to shape your Christian worldview: the moment we "demand" justice we place ourselves in a very tenuous position.
We believe we are being noble and faithful believers when we forgive those who express no repentance for their actions.
Pure fallacy! Forgiveness is always predicated upon repentance, with few exceptions😉!
The key is knowing what the exceptions are biblically!